Once Upon A Time...
Thursday, July 9, 2009
So one day she started a blog to help escape the pains of the day. To find creativity again while her soul was being sucked. (Think: the Hallows at Azkaban.)
She quickly fell in love. And the blog blossomed into something she would've never guessed or imagined.
Never ever.
So many dear friends, near and far, from the past resurfaced and she was able to experience all over again why she had loved them so much in the moment when their lines crossed.
She made friends she never would have imagined. She would find herself thinking about them throughout her day and caring about people she had never officially meet. It felt so much more healthy than reality tv.
She had many happy, joyful moments. Sad moments - tears even. Reflective moments. All with her blog and its many old and new friends.
There was a unity that was hard to put into words.
Then the day came where she began kicking herself that she used her name in the url. Because she was going to have to grow up and be a real person. A professional even.
You see, way back when she started her blog she wasn't really thinking it mattered if she had her name in her blog. Foresight did not exist. Remember, she was just a girl needing a creative outlet. There was a time when she was happy to see people googling her name and finding her world on the world wide web. That time is not now.
She refused to let this creative outlet come to an end though.
Because a part of her would have to die if she did that.
So she wondered about many things.
Would keeping her blog the way it is affect her ability to be a professional? Would she feel comfortable with that kind of disclosure available in the world? She had never been a private person. She was always free with sharing things about herself. How did she feel about those boundaries though?
Would she need to change her url? What could be a title that would make her happy? Blog titles aren't easy to pick. Would her friends know how to find her? Would they follow her to her new site without her name?
What would she do with the Google issue? Why did they have to be so good at their job, dang it?
So she thought and she thought - for months even - and couldn't make any decisions.
Standstill.
Until she needed to make a decision sooner than later.
So she decided to have her blog friends tell her what to do and she lived happily ever after.


















































